月份: 2021 年 6 月

「借」來的22天

  說來諷刺,原本剛剛很感性地慨嘆時間不夠用,今天便告訴我「死期」延至去7月23日。作為一個每天都將事情安排得密密麻麻的香港人,突然被安排了這22天空檔期,於是我也感到很煩惱,一來我無事做,二來,我一早交代了所有身後事,而家很尷尬,情況有如耶穌已經告知今天會釘十字架,卻突然同你講三星期後再釘,不長不短的時間實在尷尬😅尤其是到庭旁聽的眾人,有雄仔Mani子良文傑家寶ED「鐵膽」,更有亨yanis yanbo同一班好熟口面既旁聽師,甚至仲見到許智傑🤣實在有緣。

  點都好,可能係因為聽日71唔想有我既新聞,理論上拖得越耐對我刑期係越有利的,係同情上,但不是我要考慮既範圍了。我要諗要做咩,第一時間起碼我陪到Mani 慶生,亦可以約潛水,又可以入下田,又可以去書展,感覺天都對我不薄。最後,雖然我係石牆花拎左既物資要遲D用,但起碼父母可再見多幾面。

暫時諗到,22日to do list (已做),不分先後:

潛水 (✔)
聽唐英傑(✔)
書展(✔)
Elsa 田(✔)
入八鄉田(✔)
游水(✔)
車行 
和你搬(✔)
寫blog(✔)
約人食飯(✔)
打機(✔)
唱K(✔)
Party Room(✔)
參加導賞團(✔)

其實仲有好多野想做但未做,比如同爸媽出一次街,去一去鹽田仔,約返幫我寫求情信既人,去一轉南涌。其實好多都係想回味一下以往的回憶。這令我不禁多了一份同理心,對於死刑犯的最後一餐多了少少體會,很多時都是一些普通東西,我相信他們只是想在最後的時間,食下自己人生中某段時間的回憶~

時間真的不夠用

  人,當擁有很多時間的時候,總會把時間浪費掉,而當時間已所剩無幾時,卻會死命榨盡,這就是所謂的deadline figther了😂我自去年的人生發生了很大的變化,一直到現在,很多想做的事,都沒做得成,今天仍在死命地準備明天的事🤣。本來打算記錄每一天的成長,卻怎料返工很忙,放工更忙,放假最忙的節奏令到我三月甩晒撮記,然後六月頭,打算為整件法庭事件作一個詳盡的紀錄,由上庭記到求情記,固中的人和事都是可一不可再的,尤其是拎求情信時的種種故事,都令我覺得人性很奇妙,怎會想到幾年無聯絡的人,會由此結緣❓可惜又無時間寫。之後我想寫一篇準備記,畢竟我用了一年多的時間去做功課,由上網睇戲,再到坊間曾經歷過的手足分享,再到今天的拎物資,每一樣我都覺得值得記錄,偏偏時間不站在我這邊😪

  也許,「時間不夠用」只是世人普遍通用的藉口,本來時間就是上天唯一對大家公平的分配(儘管有一說法住高樓的人,時間過得比地底的人慢一點🤣相對論),我卻覺得時間是真的不夠用,一日24小時,一星期才168小時,一年8760小時,假如我活一百歲,才是876000小時,只要一想想,現今有八十七萬人同時在看某KOL的打機直播,一個人的人生小時總和便消失了😣不禁令我很大壓力。當然,縱向和橫向的時間是不能相比較的,看過《家庭教師HITMAN REBORN!》就知🤣但是我覺得「時間真的不夠用」,是一種成長的動力,正因為「時間不夠用」,我們才需要作出選擇,不論你的選擇為何,正因為「時間不夠用」,你都要盡力活好你當初的選擇,正因為「時間不夠用」,我們才會偶爾會有後悔,後悔當初為何沒善用時間,正因為「時間不夠用」,我們才會珍惜,珍惜眼前的一切,珍惜眼前人,因為眼前種種都是以前種落的因,是以前的時間導致的。

  最後,今天是2021年的6月30日,我仍然未知今晚會身在何方,儘管「時間不夠用」,但我感恩我已經借來了很多的時間,比想像中多很多了,當然希望可以再多點😆時間用,但其實相差不大,我人生的另一個經歷在等著我,前面的路是如何,無人知,但這不是很有趣嗎😍?

不知歸期的故人

  話說今日講起我拎左三包華爾夫,講起食煙既話題。

  今日陸媽分享了公公原來當年有食水煙的習慣(他們那一輩很興食水煙),又愛飲酒。佢提起公公以前成日醉酒打老婆,又會打舅父姨媽。不過從不打陸媽,因為佢最細。

  之後講到婆婆離開左人世後,公公好傷心。陸媽仲記得每當拜山時,公公都會留到最後,叫大家落去先,因為佢要喊。一個人,一塊碑,公公有好多野想同婆婆講,但可惜婆婆聽唔到😥 我試想像公公的心情,但不敢想像。

  於是話題轉移到陸爸係一個唔飲酒既人,究竟係咪陸媽因為公公,所以會係擇偶上作出判斷?無人知。

  用法律術語來講,明天是我最快有可能還押既日子,所以一整天都是在準備,時間多多都不夠用😮儘管Mani 已經因為處理校慶而OT到夜晚九點,但係可能因為今晚係最後一晚,所以都專登傾個電話,雖然要交代既我都一早交代左😂但我仍然有一搭沒一搭地同佢吹水,而佢雖然好攰卻仍然不斷諗有D咩要明天準備,一時又話銀行授權,一時又話寫信地址😂最後收左線後,我地訊息叫對方早D休息,傾下傾下,feel 到佢可能情緒不寧,佢話佢等緊坐我車,而我本打算同佢講睇晒我個blog就會車佢,點知竟然係我忍唔住,竟然不禁眼淺了。

  人生中實在有太多苦難,而其中一個最令人難受的是離別之苦,苦在無法相見。我很幸運,父母皆健在,仲有氣有力。但仍知終有一天是別離之時,現在,相信只是一個練習而已。

  離別之苦並不重於無法相見,乃重於無法相見的無力感,若然我早有打算出遠門,或是知道終有重逢的一天,這很難有離別之苦的。公公之所以會在婆婆的碑上觸景生情,我之所以會因無法再車女友而熱淚盈眶,全因為那種分別無期的痛苦。公公自然知道與婆婆已經生死相隔,固中之情相信夾雜了不少的悔意,人很奇怪,總會在失去了才懂得珍惜。然而我卻是被無力感充斥住,完全不知自己的歸期,這種無知無助的感覺令我覺得甚至比知道自己要受幾多更辛苦。我相信我將來仍然會經歷很多離別,只是以往,是別人從我的生命中離去,而今次,我竟成為了那位不知歸期的故人~

芭蕉雨夜的蟬聲 不知歸期的故人

夜夜抒情的晚風 叫醒睡夢的鳶尾

孤悄如你的縈迴 逐年把雲苔剪碎

靜看徬徨的煙霏 像你多變不可追

我是 那遲遲不肯啟航的 

一江水

以為明日扣門而來 是你鎩羽而歸

我是 那遲遲不肯落下的 

一滴淚

任憑眼裡的紅 浸染我全部的卑微

等了幾百個天黑 等到紅牆變成灰

你化作一個稱謂 卻時刻驚惹是非

我是 那遲遲不肯腐朽的 

一寸輝

幻想絕處逢迎細水 長流直至痛醉

我是 那遲遲不肯訣別的 

一隅北

愛盡此處蒼翠 聽山海在耳邊吵嘴

你傾慕山與水 也美不過 我半生無悔

修身齊家 有感

今天在同Mani 上飛鵝山遊車河時,我忽然有感,想到了不久前看過的一篇有關Elon Musk的 新聞,為什麼有錢人會這麼想貢獻社會,而我(很多的認識的人)卻沒有這麼的大愛去做一些有意義的事?

我看見Bill Gates 離婚的消息時,我好奇的是他與他老婆所創入的比爾暨梅琳達蓋茲基金會(Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation),裡面有很多錢都是用來做善事的。

之後,我認識一個前同事,她的屋企人同李嘉誠有親屬關係,名符其實「打六個電話可以搵到誠哥」,佢分享李嘉誠一家的日常交流,都係傾如何「改善社會」😂 我不禁莞爾一笑,因為這個我想像中的有錢人印象不同,但同時又好合理。

孔子曾言「修身、齊家、治國、平天下。」,我忽然明白所謂格局就是你所身處的位置,所看見的境和所想的事都是按你的位置思考,所以有時在新聞看見了不同的人物在講不同的話,又看見身邊的朋友的經歷,不同時期財富狀態決定了他的言行。甚或我自己也不例外,當我要忙於為五斗米掙扎,又邊有時間關心家國大事?

真的覺得黃子華很「中」!😂

最後,我以上流寄生族的一幕作結

深水埗導賞

  今次要記錄的是深水埗導賞的Script,在Google Map 上竟然搜尋到有連儂牆的起點,有種時空交錯的感覺。

Before
After

心得

  • Gimbal要置中 (用red light mode,唔好成日用手指公郁個mon,客會睇得辛苦)
  • 要望鏡頭(加微笑(就算戴左口罩))
  • N 音 No (鼻音)
  • R音 Rent (翹脷)

Intro:

1️⃣ Confirm customer name

2️⃣ Self intro

3️⃣ Camera reminder

SSP

1️⃣ Ask why join this tour?

2️⃣ Are you have been to Hong Kong? And the first impression of HK

3️⃣ SSP name deep water bay, district for the lower class people

4️⃣ U will not see the sky scrapers

5️⃣ So for today, the tour will last an hour

1st spots – cullinan west

1️⃣ Why so expensive USD800,000 / 200 ft apartment

2️⃣ Why still many buyers

3️⃣ Capital flight

4️⃣ RMB USD HKD

5️⃣ HK Shelter

Chitchat

1️⃣ask how many people are joining this session

2️⃣show the view of the margin area of the district

2nd spots -Fu Cheong Estate

1️⃣ rent USD250 , 3200 months/260 years for USD. 800,000

2️⃣7 years in HK to be the permanent resident and get the HKID card

3️⃣ maximum income limits 11830 (USD1500)

Total net asset limit 257000 (USD 32000)

4️⃣ Wait over 5 years average to get in

5️⃣ Very strict that government can check

Chitchat

1️⃣HK was British colony, has 3 region

2️⃣ opium war

3️⃣ Traffic jam

4️⃣show the Graffiti

3rd spots Tin Hau temple

1️⃣hk doesn’t has any official religion, Mainly Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Taoism

2️⃣Tin Hau is a temple of Taoism, this temple built in 1901

3️⃣ Tin Hau is the goddess of the sea, incharge of the ocean.

4️⃣ In the past, she have the superpower to foresee the weather changing, which is good for fishman.

5️⃣ hK has more than 100 tin hau temple , so spot all the Tin Hau temple in HK, you can find the coastline of the city in the past.

6️⃣Cannot film inside, so we show pictures

7️⃣Incense burner, believers believe that there is an other would after we die. (Show slide)

4th Yat Ping

1️⃣the white building, call Yat Ping

2️⃣ As you can see it is near the temples, so in the past here is nearby the sea.

3️⃣The government develop this area in 1910s, one of the method is reclamation

4️⃣in 1920s whole street are full of 2&3 storeys height

5️⃣ Right now this is the only building that has 2-3storeys left in this street, do you know why❓

6️⃣1950 refugees come to Hong Kong due to Communist

7️⃣1955 gov ammended the law to rebuild the building from 2-3 to 6-7

8️⃣ Therefore the old ones must be built before 1955

9️⃣ Finally, this building is call Yat Ping and it was a company selling photo frames and painting frames which was closed in 2016.

🔟For now there are no plans for this building, but I am afraid in the coming future it will be torn down, so really recommend to come to HK to see this

Chitchat

1️⃣Covid19 vaccine (BioNTech, Sinovac ), variant virus, isolation for 21 days

2️⃣The prevention and control of Disease Ordinance

3️⃣Restrictions on wearing mask.

4️⃣Later on some of the occupation have to to the covid test compulsory.

5️⃣ The atmosphere of central area of SSP, this is very local and it’s for the lower class.

6️⃣ Some people afraid that the expensive building in the margin will increase the price and the daily cost of the SSP district, which will affect the local grassroots level.

5th wet market

1️⃣the wet market sells daily ingredients

2️⃣we will not go inside the building, but would like to have a glimpse from the entrance

3️⃣sell live chicken and raw meat

4️⃣ until 1940, full of streets vendors

5️⃣ Until 1950, a lot of refugees became street vendors

6️⃣ For those refugees who settled down in Hong Kong, they have capital and skills and develop the light industry of HK

Export toys,watches, clothes, plastic flowers to the world.

7️⃣1970 economic drop down, a lot of employees lost their Jobs and became the street vendors again, government established the first recongnised street vendors area, lady market, selling the lady’s goods.

8️⃣two categories, daily ingredients and goods.

Chitchat

1️⃣Show street vendors

2️⃣show vegetables

3️⃣see the local of HK

6th subdivided flat

1️⃣take photos

2️⃣ Lower class people cannot afford the rent, subdivided flats, for example, 600sq ft divided into 4 subdivided flat which each one is 150sq ft.

3️⃣ although the area is smaller but the rent is still expensive that cost USD650

4️⃣ HK housing burden has been named as the champions of the world for a decade in terms of the property price

5️⃣ people have to save the money of medium salary for 20.8 year without any expenditure including food, drinks travel and social lives

6️⃣And you can see, the second runner up is not even close even 11 years almost 12years are not a short time.

7️⃣the connection of today tour, do you still remember the expensive private building? Because of the currency exchange policy that causes a lot of the capital flight happen in HK, then the public housing is  so difficult to get in, and a lot of people have to rent the subdivided flat because of the housing burden. So housing issue is a serious problems in HK.

7th  pawn shop

1️⃣ What is pawn shop? When you are running out of money, you may bring your valuable stuff into the pawn shop to exchange some money. When you have the money back, you can com back to the pawn shop  to get back your valuable stuff, by returning the money with the interest.

2️⃣ usually there are several kinds of valuable stuff, like the watch, the gold, the expensive stuff. In the old days, it is very common for people to exchange the quilt/blanket to the pawn shop. Because summer don’t need it, and no storage to store it and then the winter get it back .

3️⃣Pawn shop sign, in HK, if you see this sign, you know that this is a pawn shop

4️⃣the meaning of the sign, the lower part is a circle, which is a coins, the upper part is an up animal which is up sise down, could you please take a guess of what animal is it?

5️⃣for the bat, it’s pronounciation in Cantonese is Fok, and it is same as the pronounciation of Good fortune, and do you still remember that the bat is up side down❓ Why is it up side down? It doesn’t mean bad fortune, instead when the bat is up sign down, it’s mean the fortune is coming back, because the dou is same meaning as come back in Cantonese.

Sum up

1️⃣Sum up plus questions

2️⃣ Cantonese class

3️⃣ reminder have to wait until I leave the session

4️⃣ Self intro, I’m vincent, thank you very much.

跋:

經過多次的導賞,無論係直落去tecky 定係去court ,我都會好珍惜每次有得導賞的機會,亦會好開心有正評👇。

Hey Vincent, nice work! This is the feedback from the guest:
Vincent was very organized, knowledgeable and engaging! He took the time to get to know us and what was important to us to learn and see. Vincent took his time explaining things to us and making sure we understood. He had a fun personality too! Thank you!